Having a sister 8 years my junior… I probably wasn’t the best brother she could have hoped for. No, I can drop the “probably”, I could have been better! I remember one of my “blue ribbon” experiences that left a scar! On her not me! I chased her around a swimming pool aggravating her… It was hilarious for me watching her and hearing her scream her head off… Funny right up until her leg fell into the pool drain, her shin skin being ripped up her leg to the actual bone where it rubbed the concrete going in, etc… She still reminds me of that one! And that’s just one of many incidences.
Before you get all holy on me, you probably have a similar story!
Luckily, as we got older we became closer but there were some gaps in those years! Unfortunately, for many, they remain adversaries once they become adults. They only grow apart as siblings.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. It doesn’t have to end that way.
If you would like to have a better relationship with your sibling then maybe you need to be the one to initiate the move. If you would like to do that then you might want to read this article that has 10 Tips to Becoming a Better Adult Sibling.